On Valentine’s Day the American women are on the receiving end of romance. However, in Japan, the women are expected to acknowledge the men and give them the gifts. But fortunately for us, the burden befalls upon our male species.
Statistics shows that:
• 73% of flowers are bought by men, and out of those flowers, 110 million are mostly red roses.
• Although over 1 billion USD of chocolate is purchased, 75% of that chocolate is made by women and 75% of that is purchased by men during the day and minutes before Valentine’s Day.
• 64% of men do not make original or advance plans for the day of love and romance
Men, since Valentine’s Day was developed around chivalry, it is high time to show your special ‘someone” originality that they are worth more than an afterthought of a box of chocolates and a bouquet of roses. Here are some tips for originality with a touch of class that will titillate their sense of touch, smell and palate.
Romance demands comfort. so plan ahead to create and assure a romantic ambiance. For instance to be dining in a five star restaurant only to be seated next to the restroom, or have sold-out tickets to a hit Broadway show with seats in the rafters clues your special someone that you did not bother to well plan.
Try and be original and forget that store bought card. Instead, make it memorable and write something from your heart.
Also, create an ambience of love with dim or candlelight lighting, and gaze directly in her eyes during conversation. Even if you do this with someone who is not in love with you (yet), its physiological release of the chemical substance PEA into the bloodstream and the pupil dilation will trick your partner’s brain into a loving response.
A communal sharing of sensual foods can serve as a perfect aphrodisiac whether you order them or be bold and prepare them yourself. For instance, the mere sharing of a piece of chocolate can become an erotic experience because the chocolate will sensually melt just below your body temperature , the fat crystals transcends from a solid to a liquid with your heat energy from your tongue subsequently releasing phenyethylane . This chemical will lead to increase heart pounding and a rush of excitement which she will attribute to your sharing of a special meal emitting possibly a spark or rekindling of love?
So, men if you think it is better to be in Japan for Valentine’s Day, rather than make the effort for your special someone, think again. You may get a gift, but it might only be a “Giri-choko”- a gift of obligation.
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